Feng Shui Your Car #3

Open your windows and breathe.

Inhale that life-giving chi, full of oxygen and negative ions which help to clear the air and your lungs of harmful airborne particles such as bacteria, viruses, odours, dust, mould spores and more.

The inside of the car is a small space and the air is quickly robbed of its vital energy. If the car is new, it can also be full of chemical pollutants which leach out from the new fabric and works of the car.

Do you ever arrive at your destination feeling a little lethargic, out of sorts, low or lifeless? You need fresh air! So roll down your car windows whenever you can and grab that cleansing, invigorating chi.

Copyright © 2017 Brenda Martin

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The Colours Of Feng Shui

Feng Shui is about creating a balanced flow of energy in your surroundings. You are a reflection of the type of energy flowing around you, because you absorb it. So, balance in your personal surroundings brings balance into your body and life. With balance come optimum conditions for healing to begin, whether in your health, relationships, career, opportunities, or any other life area.FS Five elements

Water, Wood, Fire, Earth and Metal make up everything that exists, from a rock to a leaf to a person.

Each element is linked to a colour, life area, and compass sector. Placing the right colours in each compass sector of your home creates balance.  Colours can be in the form of a painting, ornament, cushions, rug and more […] read full article here 

Feng Shui Your Car #2

Having clutter-cleared your car (Feng Shui Your Car #1) now clean the windows, inside and outside, so that a continuous flow of auspicious chi can enter, flow around inside the car, then exit.

Chi can’t come and go effectively through dirty windows. It needs to flow well through the windows, otherwise the energy inside your car will become stale and stuck, and end up affecting you in a similar way, because you absorb the chi around you. You may feel sluggish, or not moving ahead in your life, or suffer mild congestive health issues or other stuck conditions. So let the chi flow through super-clean windows.

It’s also safer for you, if you can see out of the windows!

Copyright © 2017 Brenda Martin

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Feng Shui Your Car #1

Good feng shui in your car can make your time spent in it safer, healthier and more enjoyable. You absorb the energy in which you reside, even during a short trip in your car, so it makes sense to keep the energy in it balanced and healthy.

Start by clearing your clutter. This will immediately free-up the energy inside your car. Stuck energy can stop you from getting things moving, progressing, making your life work for you. It can also clog up your body and make congestive health issues stick around, like colds, chest infections, headaches. And it can make you feel like you’re stuck in a rut.

So, get a large bin bag for chucking things, and a box for carrying things back to where they belong. Then open all the windows and take a drive around the block. Don’t you feel that buzz of energy and wellbeing?

Copyright © 2017 Brenda Martin

Learn more about feng shui in our home-study course here

The Best Feng Shui Place To Sit

Do you sometimes avoid sitting in a particular place because you don’t feel comfortable there? It could be that you simply don’t like the atmosphere in the room, but mostly it’s because you are sitting in the wrong place. This can make you feel unsupported, unprotected, vulnerable, disturbed, or even distressed.

These are all undesirable seating positions:

Sitting with your back facing an empty space. You are unsupported and unprotected. Better to sit facing the space.

Sitting with the door somewhere behind you, unable to see it unless you turn around. You may feel vulnerable, as though somebody could creep up on you without your knowing it.

Sitting directly in line with the door. You are open to an assault of chi as it enters. It may be negative chi, but even positive chi can disturb you when it hits you with force.

Sitting between the door and window.  Chi rushes from a door to a window, unless there is anything to stop the rush. In this case, it’s you stopping it. You are under assault again.

Sitting with your back facing a window. Not so bad, but move if you feel uncomfortable. If you can’t, place some net curtains at the window. Place a plant underneath or at the window to deflect the chi.

The best seating position is where you have command over the room, which means good back support (a wall , a piece of furniture, or a high-back chair) and being able to see the door, facing the space in the room, and if possible, with a view of the window.

A good seating position should make you feel supported, protected, comfortable and peaceful. There are some feng shui remedies to help you here, but the easiest remedy is simply to move your chair.

Copyright © 2017 Brenda Martin

Learn more about feng shui in our home-study course here

Space Clear The Bad Energy

Whatever happens in a room or home is absorbed by the walls, floor, ceiling, furniture, objects, plants and everything else in it. If previous occupants had problems, such as financial, divorce, illness, disharmony, or the business suffered, the negative energies created by the thoughts, feelings and behaviour of the occupants remain in the space or object and can affect future occupants and businesses.

Repetitive patterns, moods and atmospheres get deeply imprinted in the very fabric of a building and swirl around in the surrounding space, possibly causing similar problems for future occupants. If your home or a room makes you feel depressed or strange in any way, you could be sensing energy left behind from a previous event or trauma […] click here to read the full article

Feng Shui & Clutter Clearing Work Together

Feng Shui struggles around clutter. Feng Shui wants to move you forward. Clutter holds you back. Its stale energy lingers in the atmosphere. Absorbing it is bad for you. Energy levels, decision-making and health can all suffer. It can make you feel ‘stuck’ and going nowhere in your life.

In Feng Shui, the floor plan of your home is divided up into eight compass sectors, and each of these relates to an area of your life. Clutter in SouthWest (your Relationships sector) can stifle relationships, stop them moving forward or create problems. In East (the Health sector) clutter can influence congestive health problems like chest infection, constipation, headaches, weight gain and any health issues that stick around. When you start clutter clearing, you’ll realise what areas of your body, mind and life were being affected by it, because those areas start to function again […] click here to read the full article

Declutter Your Website

We all want to drive visitors to our website, but is the website appealing enough for them to stay around and explore? Is our content interesting or engaging enough, or is there just too much of it, or too much waffle?

If you’re lacking visitors, or they visit but don’t convert, and bounce rates are high, it could be time for a website de-clutter.

Think about the website like your home. You clean up for your visitors […] click here to read the full article on LinkedIn

Clutter Workout for Desk and Mind

Spend 4 minutes clutter-clearing your desk at the end of each day, and you will start the next day feeling focused, energised and organised, and will probably be more productive.

Spend another 1 minute writing a To-Do list and put a tick by the priorities, and you will have a tidy, organised mind as well as a clear desk.

Being faced with a messy desk first thing in the morning can sap your energy and lower your morale and motivation, and it can also mess-up your thinking […] click here to read the full article

About Feng Shui

Feng shui is based on the flow of nature, how energy (chi) flows through the universe and how it affects people. Feng shui’s principles are the laws of nature. If we ‘go with the flow’ of nature, we are balanced and our life flows well. If we go against the flow, things can be challenging.

The aim of Feng Shui is to create healthy, positive, balanced and harmonious energy in a property. The property will then support the occupants, and help to improve their mental, physical and emotional well-being, their opportunities and all aspects of their life, being health, relationships, career, family, finances, job and more.

You and your life reflect your surroundings or your personal space, whether a room or a whole dwelling. You absorb the energy around you. If the energy is stuck, negative, unhealthy or unbalanced, this is what you absorb and may be manifesting in your body and life: stuck in a rut, unhealthy, disorganised, low morale, life not working well.

You know if you need feng shui when things go wrong regularly, the same problems keep arising, small persistent illnesses hang around, relationships suffering […] click here to read full article

Clutter Can Harm Your Health

Clearing your clutter refreshes and revitalises the energy in your home or personal space, which can help to clear your mind, give you an energy buzz and improve your wellbeing tremendously.

There is nothing to make you feel more positive about yourself and life than having a clutter-clear.

Clutter creates stuck, congested energy which, apart from clogging up the atmosphere around you, can steal your personal vitality and make you sick.

It can manifest in your body as physical illnesses that stick around, such as congestive disorders like constipation, colds or chest infections. It can influence compression issues like weight gain or abdominal fat. It can also make your relationships or life stick, and stop them from moving ahead.

All this compromises your mental and emotional health, which may cause you anxiety, worry and low self-esteem. So all in all, clutter can gradually take over your health and life and have a serious knock-on negative effect on you.

But looking positively at it, you can easily do something about it and begin to feel good immediately. Here are three clutter actions to get you going:

Identify your clutter: Things that you don’t like, don’t use, or don’t need.
Consider your clutter: If it’s useful or needed, tidy it, or repair it, and use it.
Clutter action: Chuck, donate or sell your clutter.

For more focused action, my Clutter Clearing & Space Clearing course gives you an insight into your reasons for hanging onto clutter, which will help you to tackle it, and an inspiring, encouraging and motivating structure for clearing it: https://www.come-alive.co.uk/clutter_clearing_space_clearing.html

Feng Shui Health Tips

FS Health Tips

There is a significant connection between your health and the quality of chi in your home. You absorb the energy that surrounds you, so if you are feeling out of sorts or a bit low, healthy-up the chi around you to uplift your spirits and boost your health.

Air:  Inside a home the air is often more polluted than outside. Open doors and windows regularly to move the air around. Then improve its quality with plants. Plants attract chi and make it healthy. Peace Lily and Boston Fern are two good plants for purifying the air. Have some small plants dotted around the room, and in the East sector of your sitting room (the health area in feng shui) a tall plant such as an Areca Palm.

Entrance hall: Here the healthy chi entering from outside gets ready to move through the home. If your spirits sag as you enter, so will the chi. So make the hall light, bright and welcoming. Ideas: colourful rug and picture, good lighting, anything that makes you feel good.

Light: Essential for health. Natural light outdoors is best for you. Indoors use full spectrum light. Hang a mirror strategically to reflect light into a room, but don’t reflect anything unpleasant, like clutter or bills to pay. A mirror doubles them!

Health Area: The East sector of your home will benefit from clearing clutter, placing that tall green plant mentioned earlier, and a small water feature, or a bamboo plant.

Bedroom: Let in natural light and fresh air by day, have gentle light in the evenings. No blue light equipment like phones or computers. It interferes with your melatonin production for quality sleep. Cover sharp points and angles of furniture aiming at you while you sleep. Cover the television overnight if it reflects the bed. Try not to have your bed between the door and window, or you will be hit by a rush of chi. Clear any clutter and try to keep underneath the bed and behind the door free of stuff.

Positive Thoughts: Just these few steps can help clear out stuck energy, refresh the atmosphere, and create healthy surroundings that support your wellbeing. Your positive thoughts help too, as thought is energy. So focus on improving your wellbeing, and keep the healthy chi flowing every day.

Copyright © 2017 Brenda Martin

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Healthy Front Door

The front door is one of the most important areas of the home. This is where healthy chi energy from outside enters and flows around the whole home, nourishing all rooms and spaces.

How chi travels towards the front door, what it meets when it arrives there and how it enters are important. Its journey can make it tired, depressed, angry and unhealthy, or it can make it happy, energised, balanced and healthy.

Here are some tips for attracting healthy chi to your front door and into your home:

Chi must meander
It gets angry rushing along a straight path to your front door, so stagger some plants in pots along the path, to make chi curve. Chi loves plants. It will stop around them for a while, gathering healthy energy.

Chi likes pleasant scenery
Unsightly objects like recycling bins, old pots, piles of rubbish or  dead plants will make chi unhealthy. So keep the front area looking tidy and pleasant.

Door in good condition
No squeaky hinges, rusty knobs and knockers or peeling paint. Polish the shiny parts and give it a new coat of paint. Make sure the door opens to its full width. Chi doesn’t like being squashed.

Lights and plants
Chi is attracted to lights and plants. They make it healthy. Plants around the door, either side of the door step for balance, and a light above, are perfect.

Your own chi
Your own energy can affect the quality of chi that enters. If you enter feeling negative, you risk weakening the chi. If you enter feeling good, chi will bounce around with health. We cannot always feel upbeat, but if you find your front door and front garden pleasant to see and to walk through, you will bring good chi in with you.

There is much more
but you can make a very positive start with the points above.

Copyright © 2017 Brenda Martin

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Check What Your Mirror Reflects

Look in your mirror from all angles to see what it reflects. The mirror symbolically doubles what it reflects. If it’s clutter, the mirror increases the clutter and the denseness of the stuck chi which permeates it. If it’s a table with a pile of bills on top, the mirror doubles the bills and any stress you may have about paying them. Move the mirror to reflect something pleasant which will increase healthy chi and lift your mood.

Learn more in our Feng Shui & Clutter Clearing home-study course.

Wake Up In The Rooster Year 2017

shutterstock_463816550The Year of the Rooster on January 28th is the start of the Chinese New Year. The energy influences for 2017 are Yin Fire over Metal, metal being the rooster’s element/energy.

Fire and Metal clash, and the 2016 yang fire and metal monkey clash brought the energy of unpredictability and surprises, taking a risk and trying something different. 2017 yin fire and metal rooster energy gives us a wake-up call to get moving, but in a more calculated, methodical and practical manner. Rooster energy gives a sense of optimism, strength, leadership, collaboration and communication, while the yin fire kindles around it, gathering heat until, at the right time, it turns into a roaring fire.

The Rooster provides us with a perfect energy this year for taking responsibility for our direction in life, thinking out what we really want, and planning how to achieve it. Then the Rooster treads along confidently and optimistically, taking slow but sure steps, while the yin fire glows around our plans, gathering heat, until it finally ignites them into achievement.

Last year I grabbed the Monkey energy and stepped into the unknown. It brought me a different perspective, new ideas and new contacts. It was like a breath of fresh air. This year I’m definitely going to do some thinking and planning, and move ahead optimistically, waiting for the yin fire to start glowing bright and strong.

Happy Chinese New Year!

Copyright © 2017 Brenda Martin

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Feng Shui Is For Keeps

shutterstock_20276278-smallI once sat next to a BBC reporter at a dinner.  He was disappointed not to receive a quick feng shui diagnosis over the main course, followed by treatment over dessert. He asked me discreetly if our Host’s dining-room needed feng shui, then asked if I could help him to feel better, as he was lacking energy and generally feeling unwell. I did wonder if he would have asked a doctor or lawyer for some quick advice over a semi-formal dinner.

I explained that I would need compass readings and special analyses for the dining-room, which take time. For his problems I would need to chart his birth data, take compass readings and analyse his personal living space, the building and the environment around it. As much as I love helping people to feel better, facts need to be gathered and analysed first. If feng shui is not carried out correctly, misinformation risks being given. Further, although there are feng shui rules, bio-individuality is also considered.  Every property and every person is different, so there is no one-size-fits-all approach.

But, given time to do the job properly, it is amazing how feng shui can help to restore balance within a person’s surroundings and within the person. As I always tell people who ask me about feng shui, balance creates optimum conditions for healing to begin, in the home, in the body and in life. One or two things may change quickly, but mostly they change gradually, profoundly and positively, and blend in gently to become part of life. This is why I sometimes hear people say “Well it would have happened anyway.” They forget that it had not happened until feng shui had been applied. But the important thing is that it did happen.

Copyright © 2016 Brenda Martin

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Feng Shui Hell In A Hotel Room

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I wonder how many people walk out of this hotel room feeling ill, nervous, shattered and spooked. Some years ago I had my worst night’s sleep ever in this room. I had to check in quickly and rush off to a meeting which ended late at night. When I returned, I was desperate to drop into bed and sleep. I had no time to do a Feng Shui on the room apart from covering the television and the full length mirror on the door.

During the night I felt hyperactive and slightly ill. A sense of foreboding made me feel quite scared.

It was an old hotel, so there was obviously plenty of predecessor energy in the room. Perhaps somebody had taken ill or had a serious problem in there. The next morning it became evident. The room was packed full of poison arrows, mostly aiming at my bed. There were pointed picture frames and sharp edges of alcoves. The bed head was a large square, divided into smaller squares, with all the points aiming at me. The multiple images on the heavy wallpaper were two birds sitting on twigs. The twigs were pointed towards my bed, as were the birds’ beaks.

The sofa with large cushions, the bed valance and the carpet were all in plum and red colours, giving an everlasting buzz of yang energy. One large cushion was placed diagonally on the sofa, so that its large point held court over the room. This had to be the room’s ultimate poison arrow. But no, there was more! The hotel was located in a cul-de-sac with the long main access road aiming directly at my room.

An absolutely horrid night, but what a wealth of Feng Shui material for me. It proved to me, yet again, just how a person’s surroundings can affect their wellbeing.

A bedroom should have calm yin energy for a good night’s sleep. Yin colours are soft, gentle colours such as calming blue or balancing green, or pale shades of other colours. This room had bright red and plum everywhere, colours which exude active, yang energy. During the day yang chi can help a person to gain more energy, but during the night it can keep them awake.

Predecessor energy is difficult to remove from a hotel room, but it may be that previous occupants of this room had also experienced uncomfortable feelings similar to mine, caused by the disturbing energy in the room, and their own distressed energy had been left behind in the room’s atmosphere.

Mirrors, and a television screen which acts like a mirror, are not good for bedrooms because they create an energy buzz around the room, and if they reflect the bed, they aim the buzz of energy at the occupant.  This is disruptive for peaceful sleep. I was able to cover these.

Corners and angles of furniture, or other objects such as cushions, need to be rounded, even slightly, because chi energy hits points and sharp edges, and bounces off them angrily, hitting anybody nearby and creating feelings of discomfort and distress. Tall points like that one large diagonally-placed cushion, aim an overwhelmingly menacing energy at anybody nearby.

I could have covered all the points on the bedhead with a cloth, and I could have arranged the cushions so that any points were softened and not standing upright. But I could not have done anything about the points in the twigs and the birds’ beaks which were all over the wallpaper, nor the main road aiming directly at my room. If I had not been in such a hurry to check in, I would have noticed, and asked to change room.

I certainly would not wish this room on anybody.

Copyright © 2016 Brenda Martin

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Computer Health

Feng Shui WayTechnology has gone crazy, I said, when I first heard about computer viruses. I stared at my very first computer, a birthday present that promised to transform my life. Way back then a virus meant a cold, flu or other illness. But this was a lump of metal and plastic! Even so, I didn’t dare use it in case the virus spread.  

Computer health doesn’t just mean virus-free. It also means clutter-free. But, with life’s fast pace, instant communication, immediate demands and lack of hours in a day, uncluttering the computer never makes tomorrow’s to-do list, before we crash out at the end of the day, absolutely exhausted from ‘doing’ all day […] read more

From Stuck To Free With Clutter Clearing

Feng Shui WayI’m sitting here thinking of an example of how powerful clutter clearing can be to ‘get your life moving again.’ Jan started out as my feng shui client and, after many clutter-clearing sessions later, became a friend.

Jan was definitely the Queen of Clutter, with whole rooms in her house packed to overflowing with anything you can think of, as well as all her walls decorated with bits of paper, postcards, photos, telephone numbers and reminders. Even her cooker hob was a fall-out zone for bits of paper […] read more

Addicted To Uncluttering

Feng Shui WayMy addiction always kicks in when I’ve returned home from travelling.  It’s usually after staying with other people, but they know this and don’t get offended, because they’re always asking me to unclutter them. I do what I can to help, but uncluttering a whole home is not a quick two-hour fix!

I’ve been uncluttering for years. My friends say that I can’t possibly have anything left to donate or chuck. I’m fairly minimalist…although our home may collapse one day under the weight of my books! I’m addicted […] read more

Feng Shui for Happy Children

Feng Shui WayGood feng shui in the bedroom can make a huge difference to a child’s behaviour and unique development.

One of my clients had a child who was terrified at night and didn’t seem to like being in her bedroom. During my consultation, I suggested that my client remove the red rug from the daughter’s bedroom floor. Apart from being bright red, which is a yang colour, and yang is too vibrant an energy for a bedroom, the rug depicted […] read more


Written by Brenda Martin for LinkedIn Pulse